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Mahler's Third Subphase - Rapprochement

16 to 24 months
  • Infant now a toddler -- more aware of physical separateness, which dampens mood of elation
  • Child tries to bridge gap between himself and mother -- concretely seen as bringing objects to mother
  • Mother's efforts to help toddler often not perceived as helpful, temper tantrums typical
  • Characteristic event: rapprochement crisis. Wanting to be soothed by mother and yet not be able to accept her help
  • Symbol of rapprochement: child standing on threshold of door not knowing wich way to turn in helpless frustration
  • Resolution of crisis occurs as child's skills improve and child able to get gratification from doing things himself

Compare:
16-18 months | 19-24 months | Freud's anal stage

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